yea, This is my firsttime posting something here..How 's everyone doing?
Well, first of all, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year..How was Christmas for u guys? In seremban, we had a Christmas celebration night(2 weeks b4 the real day)..i joined the choir and it was lots of fun! but the sad thing was, only handful turned up! and our batch was so disappointingly unsporting..even the seniors who were having exams outnumbered us by a lot..however i felt it went really well..sang a duet with shirley! hehe, fun fun fun..* sorry get carried away when talk bout singing..u know la.. but luckily good friends came la..rac,lwei et al..can see rac swaying to jingle bell rock..hehe..i know u guys came for the food and candy canes la!
Anyway, the real Christmas day, went for friend's party in OUG, that was great too..drank a lot..haha..this dude brought some Chinese wine..Gosh, smell like medication oil..i took a sip and literally could feel my gastric wall eroding..
Marilyn's post is an interesting topic for discussion..funny,i was just discussing it with my friend Kelvin the other day..But seriously, what is considered cheating? For me, it's when he falls for another, when feelings r involved, when u're constantlythinkin bout a possible relationship with another..that's major cheating. those "hanky panky" thingys are still forgivable ( OK OK i canhear protests of disagreement, but thats the way i feel bout it), provided they don't lie! Lying is the unforgivable part..I feel that if he's honest bout it, it's definitely forgivable, it's human nature.
But whatever it is, "to tell" all the time..
so if i'm in a relationship and u know if i "slipped", i would tell..come clean..tats the only way we can solve the problem.. unless it something reallyharmless like intimacy on the dance floor during clubbing etc..tell for what
if i was having a full blown affair (but i seriously think that it's either u don't commit, once u do, u better be loyal), i would tell..at least something can be done bout it..unless u're all out to two-time them and u don't feel an inch of guilt.
Speakin of lying, kELVIN and this other friend were telling me that day bout why "sometimes guys lie" , the scenario was if your bf has a closefriend (a girl) and they r close and always talk and meetup etc..and u know that the girl likes him..but he tells u he's not interested..
and yet she always go to him with problems and stuff.. According to the guys, they would lie about "meeting/caling/msging that friend" cos "girlfriends get paranoid over nothing", so it's like a white lie... i was like"if there's ntg going on, don't lie lar"...
then the scenario changed to
"if one day u called ur bf for lunch, & he said he's "busy" when he's actually meetin up with "her" (yea he lied cos we're paranoid creatures, there's really nothing going on), but if he told the truth, u girls would be like" u're blowing me off to meet up with her?"..True that, but what if "i happened to go to the same place for lunch and saw them, and he happened to give her a hug cos she needs a shoulder bla bla..and he friggin' lied bout where he was"..all hell breaks loose man..
Yawns i would write more but it's 4:18 am now..which explained why my sentences, punctuations, are all over the place. . Blog more next time, Till u guys get sick of me!:P
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